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1. Erika @ March 29th, 2007
   
   

   Damn Becky, I’m sorry you having such a rough go of it. With the mood swings you are talking about, my first thought was a possible hormonal imbalance.

   Maybe you should call your gyno, and see what they think.

   I also think that you should really let go and talk about what you are feeling. I’m proud of you for being honest about what you’re going through.

   Let me know if I can help.

2. Dawnie @ March 29th, 2007
   
   

   Okay Becky…Thanks for sharing with us first of all. That takes guts and courage…

   Now, I dont know your reasons, but I am sure there are plenty…But let me relate…

   I went through a really really bad time in the fall. One day I was on cloud nine, the next I was in the dungeon. I can soooo relate…I knew something was wrong with me. I knew I was broken, my husband knew it. My friends…But I seemed unable or not capable of fixing myself. And I tried hard to do it on my own…

   Now that I am removed by several months from that time…I can say I honestly wish I had gotten some professional help…

   I should have reached out to someone OR, taken a leave of absence from my family so they did not have to suffer with me..I was horribly horribly mean to my husband…

   The guilt I carry from that time will NEVER go away…He has forgiven me, but I cant seem to forgive myself…

   So if you have the resources, please please find someone to help you…It is the only advice I can truly give you…

   I am sorry for you. I know that feeling…And I can tell you, in time, you will be okay…But man…Its a long long and sometimes dark climb back up out of the muck…

   My thoughts are with you my friend!!!

   Dawn

3. Wonder Woman @ March 30th, 2007
   
   

   I can so relate.  You could be just going through a tough time.  Maybe you not going to Curves or walking lately has had an effect too.  Working out helps us with stress and not to mention getting us out of the house and taking a mental break from the stresses at home.  But, it could also be a hormonal thing.  I talked to my doctor and tried some depression medicine.  And it works for me.  Without it, I am an emotional mess. Up one minute, down the next.  If the medicine is right for you, it can help.  It can’t hurt to just talk to the doctor.  You might also have something else going on physically that can be causing this that a simple blood test can figure out.  Wouldn’t it be great to go to the doctor at least and rule some things out?  It would also probably make your husband feel like your trying to find a solution and maybe he can be more sympathetic while your trying to figure it out.  I know medicine is not for everyone.  But, wouldn’t it be great if it were good for you and made you feel better?  Don’t put if off.  Find out so that you can get back to a normal you. 

4. Tasha DisneyFanatic @ March 30th, 2007
   
   

   So sorry to hear how you feel. But I agree with Dawnie…..first of all thanks for sharing…..You really didn’t have to. And you should seek some professional help.

   I have been where you’re at. I got help…..and yes….it helps/works. It sounds like a mild case of depression. I had it and it’s real. You’re not losing your mind. 

   Just know…..I’ll be praying for you and your family and “You’re Not Alone!” I’m hear if you ever need an ear.

   

5. Jo @ April 2nd, 2007
   
   

   My heart goes out to you Becky because I too have had the same type of mentality. I have learned, that sometimes, the courage is greater and we are stronger, when we let the ones we love know our weaknesses and insecurities.  You would be surprised how much your loved ones want to help unburden you.  I’m all for seeing a therapist.  It’s a great help to share your burdens with someone who isn’t going to judge you.  Hope you feel better and if ever you want to unload on me, I’m all ears!

6. Sissy @ April 2nd, 2007
   
   

   Oh Becky! I am so sorry I didn’t read this sooner. I have been going trough the same things lately. I have found help and it comes in the form of theropy and meds. I had finally given up on being able to change these things myself. I am not sure what the reasons are, but I know that it has helped mostly to talk to someone outside of my family network. I hope and pray you have already found a soultion for yourself.You and your family don’t need to suffer any longer. Please talk to a professional if you haven’t already. That talking helps me bunches, even though my meds have not started to kick in yet. Lots of love to you! ~Sissy

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